sona's Q & A

Frequently asked questions I get about myself:

'What disabilities do you have?'
I have plaque psoriasis on my scalp, a swollen lymph node in my neck that isn’t viable to the eye thankfully (but horribly painful), Depression, major Anxiety, chronic IBS and other GI issues, and i recently have been diagnosed with severe trauma as well as autism type 2, and other intellectual or developmental struggles. I also have Social anxiety disorder and Persistent depressive disorder on my chart. all of these things give me challenges daily.'What are neo/xeno pronouns?'
1. ‘neo pronouns’ are fake [not valid] ‘pronouns’ like “it/its/xe/xem/zir/xir/fae/zi” etc.2. ‘xeno pronouns’ are fake [not valid] ‘pronouns’ like “void/star/pup/tree/coptr/film/shirt/voidself/pupself/shirtself”None of these ‘identities” or “pronouns” are okay to use or valid in any way.
The explanation for this is in my explanations HERE
Identifying with, supporting, or even “not caring”/being neutral to these fake [not valid] ‘pronouns’ will 100% get you a block from me very quickly.'What are therians?'
‘Therians’ are human beings who truly believe that they are an animal. They identify as their animal of choice and even go as far as practicing jumping on all fours, and asking for litter boxes in public schools. This is gross. This is nasty. These kinds of people make furries look like a joke, and possibly even gross. Identifying as a ‘theiran’ OR ‘otherkin’ will 100% get you a block from me very quickly.'Are you really a widow?'
Yes. My fiance died 4/11/24. He and I were together for three long and lovely years. He died from a seizure induced from stress. Any and all other information about my fiance's death is private and I will not be talking on this matter any further than this on the internet.'Why is consistency so important to you?'
I do not settle for anything less. I know my time is worth something to me, so I make sure others know as well. If you take the time to read my “about me” section, and you know my situation and how desperate I am to have a real friend, if you see how isolated i have been and really cared, you would make the effort to come see me or get me and do stuff with me outside of my house. I do NOT consider you a ‘friend’ unless you make an effort to come see me or hang out with me often. That is what a friend is to me, along with the support from both ends emotionally and many other things. Consistency is super important to me due to most of my friendships ending after a period of time. I do not even take chances on people “ghosting” me either. That is disrespectful to me and I do not take disrespect lightly.'Why is your DNI list so detailed and/or long?'
I do not take chances on wasting time. The list was made to eliminate the possibility of wasting time while making new friends. If you fall under my DNI, or even slightly disagree with any point on my DNI list, we now know that we will not get along. I will not like you, therefore I can block you, and we can move on. If it upsets you that much, then maybe re-think your motives. It’s detailed so it's retard-proof. I even made this Q&A so there's even LESS confusion (somehow there still is?) I like to be 100% direct and clear on what I stand for, that's just the kind of person I've always been.'What is your zodiac sign?'
I am a Leo sun, Pisces rising, and Capricorn moon.'Why are you so strict with who you keep around you?'
I had been through a lot of drama in my teenage life, and it sadly follows me even into adulthood. I did a lot of things I'm proud of, and a lot of things I did; I learned from. People tend to stalk, harass, and watch me through others when they hate me. For some reason, people really love to hate me, try to cancel me, or defame my name based on the past, or the hills I stand on. I keep myself safe from anything that would break my DNI, or my comfort. This should be self explanatory.'Why won't you let me be friends with you if I'm friends with someone you ‘don't like’?'
If you happen to be friends with, or have someone who is friends with anyone who is friends with anyone i hate, you will be blocked for my own safety. All people that I no longer talk to are for a reason. When I tell you I will not befriend you unless you block them, that is also for your own safety. Most of the people that have defamed me, or harassed me have caused so many issues for me and my development as a person. These people are not to be trusted, especially if your values align with mine. If you think even for a second that id be your friend while you hang out with my stalker exes, you must be on something STRONG. I dislike the idea of people talking about me in a bad way behind my back even after all this time.'You confuse me. What do you want?'
Since I just lost my fiancé in April '24, I'm not open to dating, being intimate, or even letting someone flirt with me right now. If there's a 0.00001% chance that I develop feelings for you, I'll definitely let you know. I don't engage in sex, flirty conversations, or send any nude pictures to anyone unless I'm planning to date them or I'm already dating that 0.00001% person. I also have a list of requirements for anyone who wants to be my partner. This is private information, and honestly, it's probably not going to happen again after everything I've been through, including being traumatized, harassed online, and not getting the help I need for so long.

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